May callsign pero walang label?
Araw-araw magka-video call pero walang label?
Hinahatid sundo pero walang label?
Breaker, relationship red flag ‘yan.
Hindi porket uso or ginagawa ng karamihan, ayun na ang tama. Aminin mo man or hindi, eventually, may masasaktan, may mawawasak, at may maiiwang luhaan diyan if you do not define the relationship or tinatawag na DTR.
Sure ka ba na gusto mong ipagpatuloy ang ganiyang setup?
Bibigyan ka ni Breaker Trish ng 3 reasons why you need to define your no label relationship in her BreakTambayan video.
BreakThrough No Label Relationship Reason #1: To know where you stand.
Have you ever felt that WALA KANG KARAPATAN feeling?
Because in the first place, you are not entitled to “in a relationship” privileges. Hindi ka rin sure kung ikaw lang talaga ang ka-deep talk niya hanggang madaling araw.
Kapag may label kayo, you can talk to the person directly how you feel and resolve the issue together. Hindi mo deserve mag-overthink or maluha sa selos, doubt, or worry.
Sabi nga ni Breaker Trish, “Mahirap kung all this time you were protecting your heart, and when you finally let your guard down, hindi naman pala same ang feeling niya about you.”
BreakThrough No Label Relationship Reason #2: To know if it’s worth your time.
Sure ka ba na the feeling is mutual?
Sabi nga nila, never assume unless stated.
Kinuwento mo na ang family tree mo, your past hurts, disappointments, fears, even your hopes, dreams, and goals sa buhay.
Para sa ‘yo, there’s a bright future ahead for the both of you. Para sa kaniya, temporary lang pala.
Nakaka-strike itong sinabi ni Breaker Trish, oh.
“Think about the time you could’ve spent on yourself or with the person who wants the same future as you, kung maaga pa lang nalaman mo na ang state ng relationship na ‘to,” she said.
Breaker, invest your precious time on someone who knows your value, enough to not leave you insecure or fearful all the time.
BreakThrough No Label Relationship Reason #3: To have a clear commitment.
Nakakapagod ang malabong usapan, Breaker.
Hindi mo alam kung tama or mali ba the way you act, the way you feel, or the way you think dahil wala kayong commitment sa isat-isa.
“Wala kayong ground rules for behavior, and sooner or later, may masasaktan dahil puwedeng maglaho nang walang paalam ang isa, since wala naman siyang responsibility sa ‘yo,” hugot ni Breaker Trish.
#Ghosted na naman ba ang ending?
Gising na sa katotohanan, Breaker.
Panoorin mo ang full BreakTambayan video below and ready yourself sa heartbreaking pero heart-healing truth ni Breaker Trish.
Alam namin na scary tanungin ang “Ano ba talaga tayo?” at malaman ang katotohanan, but you can’t run away forever.
Kailangan mo ba ng someone to pray for you about your status?
You can reach out to us by texting 0999-227-1927 or calling 0931-805-0802.
Breaker, Jesus loves you and He only wants the absolute best for you. Tingnan mo na lang ang love story nina Toni Gonzaga at Paul Soriano, Nikki Gil and BJ Albert, or Rica Peralejo and Joseph Bonifacio.
Hindi sila nag-settle for less and look at where they are now, in a joyful and satisfying relationship with each other and the LORD.
Allow Him to work in your love story, Breaker.
Sabi sa Matthew 6:33 ESV, “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
It could be na time na ito to rearrange your priorities.
Gusto mo bang malaman how to seek the LORD first?